The Secrets of Sex appeal

The Secrets of Sex appeal               sistershare247

What makes someone sexy? Good question! After all, what's sexy to one person is 'Are you for real?' to another. Here are the secrets of sex appeal 

1.    Get clean. Bathe at least once a day. Wash with nice smelling body soap three times with a bathing
sponge and you will smell great. Get out and pat yourself dry with a soft, fluffy towel, and rub in some rich body lotion that doesn't smell strong. You need to be soft and able to cuddle at all times, don't neglect your hands, elbows, and feet.

2.    Practice good dental hygiene. This includes brushing, flossing and even mouth wash. Clean your tongue with a tongue cleaner or a spoon every morning for fresh breath. Get a checkup and have your teeth cleaned often. Invest in a good toothbrush, water pick, and mouthwash. Always keep mints or breath spray on hand.

3.    Get groomed. Work with what you've got. But keep it neat and tidy. Trim finger and toe nails weekly, remembering to clean under the nail. No fancy nail polish colors are needed, but a simple beige color looks delicious. To do your eye brows with tweezers numb them with an ice cube then soothe them with any cream but if you can an Aloe Vera based one and pluck away. This takes away the pain and gives you full precision on the shape you want for your eyebrows. Or just wait until you get out of the shower, it'll hurt less. Once every 2 or 3 weeks, have a pampering day, including a manicure, pedicure, facial, and bubble bath, even if it's just a spa day at home.

4.    Style your hair. Make a trip to the hair salon. A new cut or style will make you feel sexy and confident. Having a change of hair color is nice, too. Go for something natural and not too dramatic. Deep condition your hair at least once a month. Studies show that most men are more attracted to longer hair. This is because longer, glossier hair is associated with health; if you get ill, the first thing the body stops maintaining is your hair in order to concentrate on sustaining more vital areas. And in terms of evolution, it makes more sense for a guy to be attracted to a healthy girl; it's become natural to be attracted to hair that looks healthier. Get split ends treated for shinier hair and use heat protectant to prevent them from coming back.

5.    Create winning skin. Do a steam facial maybe once a week for up to 10 minutes, to open up your pores and get rid of blackheads and acne. To do this, get a bowl of boiling water and a towel, and just sit with your face in the steam, using the towel as a little tent/mini sauna over your head and the bowl. Doing it for longer than 10 minutes will just stress out your skin,will just make it worse, so be careful. Wash your face right away afterwards with a cleanser made for your type of skin. Then rinse and splash your face with cold water to close your pores or, alternatively, get an ice cube and wait for it to melt a little. Then smooth it gently over your face until it melts; this closes your pores and prevents dirt going back into them. An alternative to this is to use a facial scrub to get rid of flaky, dead skin cells.

6.    Show your style. Look in the mirror. Pick your features of which you are most satisfied with, and show them off with clothes, makeup, or accessories. If you seem to know what you've got, others will get the message and notice you for what you have. Invest in a good pair of curve-hugging jeans. Dark denim looks good on all body types. Pick some clothes that flatter your figure and that you feel comfortable in. There's no point picking the latest fashions if you don't feel comfortable in them. Pick clothes that make you feel like you

·         Wear lace-up flats or sneakers. Flats are cute and comfortable, two characteristics that you rarely ever find together in the shoe department. 

·         Wear jewelry that excites you. Find colorful, fun, bright chunky necklaces and bracelets, but if you wear lots of pearls and beads, don't wear a shirt that has a pattern or a picture on it. Wear a monochromatic top with lots of multicolored jewelry.

·         Black is sexy. It hides fat, creates curves and makes you feel like a goddess.

·         Sexy undergarments. But don't flash them. Be classy about it otherwise you look trashy. Try to maintain class as much as possible, while still being sexy.

7.    Take up dancing. Sign up for dance lessons with a friend, salsa, ballet, hip-hop, ballroom, whatever you like. You'll gain confidence, and you will move more gracefully and sexily in everything you do, without even thinking about it. Health benefits are an obvious bonus. Belly dancing is also another way to feel sexy and confident.

8.    Wear make-up. Just make sure not to go overboard. Subtle is very sexy in the same way that less is more. Accent one feature at a time. For example, one day, put on lip-liner, bold red lipstick, and mascara. For another day, wear subtle pink or clear lip gloss, and wear eye-liner to make your eyes stand out. If you need help creating a look, a mall makeup counter or independent beauty consultant would be happy to teach you for free.

9.    Get-in-Shape. Create a workout plan. Crunches and lunges equal flat, hard ab muscles, lunges equal toned legs, and squats equal a toned backside. Running or jogging works all muscles of the body and increases your stamina. Plus, the hormones your body releases while exercising carry on through your evening activities to contribute to your new sexy attitude.

Sexy doesn't equal skinny. Men are attracted to all body types. Curvy women are sexy too.

10. Wear Lace. Not only is lace one of this season’s hottest fashion trends, it also has transformative powers. “Wearing a lacy top or dress can transform a woman into a seductress. It’s a way to express your feminine side because when you slip into lace, you automatically feel girly and romantic. Lace has a magical effect on men  

11.  Play up your eyes. “Men are generally attracted to women with bigger eyes, fuller lips and bigger breasts because they look youthful and sexy. These attributes are also a sign of fertility with higher levels of estrogen that make these women good candidates for mating,” 

12.  Make your lips look pouty-Salma Hayek shared this trick on how she makes her lips look fuller: She highlights the bow of her upper lip using the shimmer cream stick that is in her Nuance Lights-Not duck face please

13. Play Up Your Cleavage With Caution- “A little cleavage is a tantalizing turn-on for a man who enjoys the chase, but too much cleavage can make you look like the hunter and be a turn-off, unless you’re a one-night stand,”The rule of thumb: The more you are naturally endowed, the less pushing up and out you need to do. A subtle shimmer cream always helps too.

14. Sweep your hair to one side. “Long sexy hair parted on the side demonstrates a sassy confidence and displays the beauty of feminine bare shoulders. Be sure to shrug them seductively when you lock eyes with a man.

15. Wear red- Men who participated in the University of Rochester study found women more attractive and sexually desirable when they wore red. They even said they would spend $15 more on a date with her. The researchers took a photo of a woman who got high scores for her looks on the website and altered the color of her shirt. When she was wearing red, she got higher ratings. (Source: Wearing Red is Sexy | NBC San Diego)

16.  Wear a simply sexy fragrance-“Since fragrances can heighten a man’s sexual magnetism towards a woman, you want to be sure that you apply just a dab to compliment your own personal scent known as pheromones. Stick to subtle aromas that guys can easily identify such as a hint of vanilla, rose, orange blossom or lavender,” scent we love: Vera Wang Lovestruck

17.  Make your hair look really shiny. “Having silky smooth shiny hair makes you look healthy and sexy. You can flirt by flicking your hair in front of him and seduce him by giving him a sensual massage using only your hairUp the glossy factor of your hair with a shine enhancing serum. 

18.  Wear Something Unique-“Wearing a hat or unique accessory that suits your style or clothes with unusual logos are all great flirting props,The idea is that you’ll stand out from the crowd, and the unique piece could even be a conversation starter. Here, Kim Kardashian wears an Egyptian Hair Chain.

19.  Slip into High Heels-This sounds like a real no brainer, but just remember the next time you’re getting dressed and feeling too lazy to wear high heels, get over it. “It is hard not to feel sexy in a pair of heels; they change the way you walk as heels thrust the hips and breasts forward, rounding off the buttocks, making a woman sensuous and appealing.

20. Be Original. Remember to be who you are and act yourself. Try to be original and unique in your sexiness, not just a bimbo emulating or trying to be somebody else.

21. Be confident-Also remember, confidence is the key. Sex appeal involves a belief in yourself that you can and will appear sexy. Most public icons or even film stars carry their sexiness in their confidence. Even a simple smile shows confidence and appeal. In fact the starting point to sexiness starts with confidence. If you feel sexy and confident, then it will show, occasionally raise your eyebrows, and flutter those eyelashes.

22. Highlight your positive features. If you have pretty blue eyes, then show them off. If you have a beautiful smile, then flash those pearly whites.

·         Drink lots of water and eat nutritious food. Be healthy.

·         Wear pretty lingerie and underwear, even if no one sees it.

·         Wear nail polish. For example, clear polish on fingernails and bright red and hot pink on toenails.

·         Find your passion in life. Do you love to dance? Act? Sing?

·         Remember that beauty attracts beauty, confidence attracts confidence, and maturity attracts maturity. If you want a good catch, be a good catch. If you concentrate on your own happiness, happy people will find their way to you.

·         Be relaxed. Uncertainty and fear tends to have an aura. Don't worry and enjoy yourself.

·         Posture has a lot to do with being sexy as well. If you feel confident and walk tall, everyone else will think so too. Keep your shoulders back, and walk with a bit of a strut.

·         Smile. It is absolutely crucial for you to smile; it not only makes you look confident, but it makes you look more approachable. It puts people at ease, and will ultimately make you feel at ease. (have clean, white teeth).

·         Be sincere when you smile at people.

·         Be sure to make eye contact

·         Being very confident and having a high self-esteem can help you to be sexier.

·         Treat yourself like a queen/princess...don't wait for a guy to do it. Love yourself.

·         Maintain class. Being sexy isn't about wearing small or revealing clothing or behaving promiscuously; being sexy is about being comfortable in your own skin.

·         Nothing increases sex appeal like the color black. Just dab on black eyeliner, eye shadow and/or kohl. Even using an eyelash curler and then mascara, or wearing simple black clothes works more than anything else.

·         Always be yourself. What is feminine to one woman might be different to another. Find out what you're comfortable with.

·         Red is also a sexy color. Go for some on your lips, on your nails and maybe in some clothing articles. It's scientifically proven that the color red enhances your sex appeal, so use it to your advantage.

·         Don't be afraid to try out new looks. Make sure you feel comfortable in what you're wearing, but don't be afraid to experiment. Once you get settled into a look that suits you, you'll exude confidence and stand apart from the crowd.

·         Cocoa or Shea butter is really good for normal to dry skin because it makes your body smooth and soft. Face masks and good moisturizers are also good, be sure to get one that doesn't clog your pores and matches your skin type. Also coconut milk is good for your hair.

·         It doesn’t matter if you're larger than most girls. You don't have to look like everyone else to be beautiful.

·         Meditation. This isn't key but it helps you feel great and will boost your confidence. You can do this maybe once a week.

·         Be happy! Guys love that. Nobody wants to be with someone who is miserable all the time.

·         If you have unwanted spots or freckles try rubbing lemon juice on it. Lemon acts as natural bleach. It depends on what skin type you are. It should work on fair and darker skins, but possibly pale skin also.

·         Don't be too self-confident as this can come off as being cocky or conceited.

·         Speak in a way that shows intelligence.

·         Don't be loud, rude, obnoxious, or disrespectful.

·         Don't be dirty or sloppy.

Remember: You can be sexy without looking trashy! Make sure you don't overdo it or you'll look as if you're trying too hard. Don't feel as if you need to look a certain way to get attention, confidence is the key to feeling great on the inside and looking great on the out.

Remember that femininity and sexiness come from within...it is all part of having inner beauty.

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